Forty Days of Love

We just started a new series on the topic of love at our women’s group in church and the first session was very inspiring! We will be looking at the book “40 Days of Love” by Rick Warren and I really enjoyed the first video which was very down-to-earth and without any sugar-coating. We took a look at the love chapter in the Bible (1 Corinthians 13) and although I have read it many times, it always moves me whenever I read it.

I like how Rick summarized the chapter in Corinthians, in essence saying that we can have all the faith, knowledge, accomplishments and even show generosity to others but if we are not doing it out of love, it is completely meaningless. I felt quite convicted by this because I know there are moments when my giving to others has not been completely selfless. I have either expected something in return or expected to be recognized.

The love talked about in Corinthians is completely unconditional. I have to remind myself of this often particularly when I am not feeling forgiving of someone else. When I am tempted to point the finger, I look at myself and say, “You know, you’re not perfect. You have made many mistakes and yet God chose to be merciful and to forgive you, no matter what you did. You should do the same for others“. This is such a hard pill to swallow some times. It almost doesn’t make sense, it almost seems to go against our nature. But this is what unconditional love is!

Week 1 challenge: Go out of your way to show love for someone else (without any self-seeking motives or expecting something in return).

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“If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love”.

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7 thoughts on “Forty Days of Love

  1. Powerful message Malaika! Very true & often a problem. I have been cultivating something similar within myself. One is maintaining a peaceful mind and the other is forgiving. So far, so good and with each step, I feel lighter. It is amazing how the mind controls so much of the physical. I will take the posted challenge and will check for week two! Sorry for the pressure lol

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    1. Thanks Yadei! I know what you mean about feeling more peaceful and lighter. It’s actually liberating! Awesome that you are taking on the challenge too! It will keep me in line to have something new for next week! Thanks for your support! 🙂

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  2. Being fully merciful to others and truly loving unconditionally is a challenge at times, but when we realize just how merciful God is to us and how liberating it is to extend mercy to others, we should forgive more easily. I think the key is to remember to humble ourselves, because a quick look at ourselves and we will see that we aren’t perfect. Without grace and mercy, where would we be? Just as we need it, others need it too.

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